Get Your Ex Back

Breaking up can be very complicated.  At first all you can think about is getting back with your ex.  Most couples experience a lot of happiness in one area of the of the relationship and a lot of conflict in another area.  That is why you tend to remember all the fun times that you had together, and when you fell in love.  However, sometimes it may not be in your best interest to get back together.

When a relationship starts to turn sour it seems like no matter how hard you try to make it work, it just does not happen.  You are both putting up your walls and continue to have the same arguments over and over again.  The feeling of love now feels like pain, however we still hang in there, numbing our feelings of anger, disappointment and hurt.

There can be several reasons why couples hang in there, the most common is we do not want to admit to failure, and most of all, we are afraid of being alone.  We do not know what to do when the relationship is not working.

It is a good idea to determine why your relationship may not be working.  The two most common reasons are:  your ex is the right person for you, but you don’t know how to make it work, or you are with the wrong person.

How can you tell if your ex is the right person for you?  Ask your self these questions:  Do you give each other the love that you need and deserve? Are you compatible?  Are you on the same page about growing together?  If you answered yes, then getting back with your ex is worth your time and effort.  If you answered no, then it is very likely that your ex is not the right person for you.

Having someone that makes you feel special and loved is what a relationship is all  about, and it hurts when your partner does not feel or show you the love that you need.

There are several reasons why you might not be getting the love you need.  Here are 2 reasons why getting back with your ex may not be a good idea:

1.  Your ex is emotionally shut down and can’t love anyone, even you.  Yikes!

2.  You are not what your ex wants in a partner, and if you are not what your ex wants, that means they don’t like you enough, and it is time to move on.

Remember this: if the person is wrong for you, moving on is the best thing for you. It will hurt now, but the pain will go away and the best thing is,  it will open up opportunities for you to meet the right person.

If your ex is the right person, Congratulations, and I am rooting for you!  Nothing can be better than getting back with your ex if the person is right for you.

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